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"J'ACCUSE!" OREGONIAN COLUMNIST ELINOR MARKGRAF: Family Scapegoat Reveals
All.
In 1977, Elinor Markgraf and I were married at Portland Cathedral. In due
course we had six children together and purchased property off Cornelius
Pass Road at 18212 NW 6th Ave near Burlington, where she and most of our
children still live.
In 1985 she abruptly reneged the mutual conditions we agreed to before our
marriage. In particular the woman who, before our marriage, insisted that I
must be an active participant in the raising of our children now demanded
that I have nothing more to do with them, that child-rearing was her job
alone. When I refused she declared that I must comply or that I must leave.
By 1988 I was induced to leave the family on her assurance that if I did so,
everything would be all right.
Elinor Markgraf has never given any coherent reason for driving me out of
the family, and it was not until 1999 that "reasons" were given me, by our
children, when they flung an astounding series of false accusations in my
face. The main charges: supposedly I am insane: supposedly I wrote Elinor
Markgraf a letter declaring my intention of murdering both her and all of
our children.
I replied that any wife who truly believed her husband insane would seek
help for him, via civil commitment. That she would do so regardless of her
personal feeling for him, even if only because SSI delivers a higher
standard of living than welfare. Elinor Markgraf has never sought help for
me. What she did instead was to indoctrinate our children that my supposed
insanity deserves loathing and contempt. What possesses a mother to do such
a thing to her children?
I also replied that a written threat to kill is proof of the crime of
Menacing, and that any normal mother genuinely receiving such threat to her
children would take it to the District Attorney and have the author jailed.
Indeed, how could she not do so? But Elinor Markgraf has never done this
(not surprising, as I never wrote such letter). What she did instead was to
terrorize our young children with the concept "Your daddy's coming to kill
you". What possesses a mother to do such a thing to her children?
Repeatedly, I have urged the older children to pursue civil commitment for
me, that surely they see the falsity of accusing me of these things while
avoiding official investigation of them. In four years not one of them has
responded to these issues. Elinor Markgraf has systematically indoctrinated
them to shun me and to deny the truth. What possesses a mother to do such
things to her children?
While I lived with my family, an evening ritual was for the four youngest
children to sit on me as I sat in an armchair and discussed the day with
Elinor Markgraf; one on my shoulders, one on each thigh, and the youngest
between my knees. Hardly evidence of dislike; yet today my children hate,
fear and despise me. Where there was love, Elinor Markgraf rooted it out
and destroyed it, and sowed hatred in its place. What possesses a mother to
do such a thing to her children? Is there any sin worse than this?
Unfortunately, yes. Read on.
On 10/7/98 the Oregonian published a letter from Susan Moray which publicly
rebuked Elinor Markgraf for her declared methods of raising her sons; that
she was deliberately fostering behaviors in men that she (Moray) warned her
daughters against. When I discussed this matter with my sons in 1999, I
ended convinced and warned them that their mother, Elinor Markgraf, was
deliberately desocializing them with respect to women. I further warned
them that she would manipulate them into never leaving their childhood home,
and would discourage women who showed interest in them.
Now, more than 4 years later, she has done all this, ... and more. Imagine,
if you will, a household consisting of a mother and 5 male children, ranging
in age from 17 to 23, not one of whom shows any interest in exploring the
outside world. They just want to stay home and live with mom. When I
warned them in 1999 of this likely outcome, one of them, Alaric, denied it,
saying he hated the place and would leave home as soon as he was able. I
did not point out to him then that if he really meant what he said, he would
already have left.
... and more. Specifically, Elinor Markgraf has seduced the largest and
strongest son, Will, and uses him to enforce her goal of preventing her
children forming natural unions; by threat, terror and physical violence.
In May of this year, Will proudly informed me that he had knocked out one of
Tave's teeth and given him a concussion, with just one punch. He seemed
entirely ignorant that such behavior, if reported, could have brought him 6
years in prison. When I asked him why he did this, he said "because he
fucked his girl-friend". Will thinks it's ok for him to ****, but not for
his brothers? I think he laid Tave out because Tave was falling in love
with his girl friend. Violent bullying is well known to produce adult males
too cowed to form relationships with women, hence the current campaign
against bullying in schools.
The 5 boys are kept in bondage, while the only daughter, Madeleine, 25, was
hustled out of the house and compelled to earn her own living as soon as she
turned 18. This situation is the exact opposite of the traditional pattern.
The objective is to prevent our children from ever having children of
their own. Elinor Markgraf is engaged upon their psychological
sterilization.
You may feel that this is an invalid inference. I put it to the test. In
late September 2003 I sent an ultimatum to Elinor Markgraf, and copies to
each of our children. Either the family allay my fears regarding the
children's succession, or face this exposure. The letter was ignored.
Elinor Markgraf prefers this exposure rather than allow our children to
become sperm/egg donors. Our children are so terrorized by her that they
"choose" the same option. What possesses a mother that, after bearing and
raising six children, she would turn and destroy them in this way?
I do not think that Elinor Markgraf does the things I accuse her of by her
own choice. I think she is infected by an unrecognised disease or parasite.
My reasons for thinking this can be found at http://forporphyry.ds4a.com
by clicking on the Pandemic link.
For space reasons this email has barely touched the main issues. A full
account of accusations made against me and my rebuttals of them is
obtainable at http://forporphyry.ds4a.com and click on the Letters link.
or from (e-mail address removed).
Graham Lawrence 11/11/03
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All.
In 1977, Elinor Markgraf and I were married at Portland Cathedral. In due
course we had six children together and purchased property off Cornelius
Pass Road at 18212 NW 6th Ave near Burlington, where she and most of our
children still live.
In 1985 she abruptly reneged the mutual conditions we agreed to before our
marriage. In particular the woman who, before our marriage, insisted that I
must be an active participant in the raising of our children now demanded
that I have nothing more to do with them, that child-rearing was her job
alone. When I refused she declared that I must comply or that I must leave.
By 1988 I was induced to leave the family on her assurance that if I did so,
everything would be all right.
Elinor Markgraf has never given any coherent reason for driving me out of
the family, and it was not until 1999 that "reasons" were given me, by our
children, when they flung an astounding series of false accusations in my
face. The main charges: supposedly I am insane: supposedly I wrote Elinor
Markgraf a letter declaring my intention of murdering both her and all of
our children.
I replied that any wife who truly believed her husband insane would seek
help for him, via civil commitment. That she would do so regardless of her
personal feeling for him, even if only because SSI delivers a higher
standard of living than welfare. Elinor Markgraf has never sought help for
me. What she did instead was to indoctrinate our children that my supposed
insanity deserves loathing and contempt. What possesses a mother to do such
a thing to her children?
I also replied that a written threat to kill is proof of the crime of
Menacing, and that any normal mother genuinely receiving such threat to her
children would take it to the District Attorney and have the author jailed.
Indeed, how could she not do so? But Elinor Markgraf has never done this
(not surprising, as I never wrote such letter). What she did instead was to
terrorize our young children with the concept "Your daddy's coming to kill
you". What possesses a mother to do such a thing to her children?
Repeatedly, I have urged the older children to pursue civil commitment for
me, that surely they see the falsity of accusing me of these things while
avoiding official investigation of them. In four years not one of them has
responded to these issues. Elinor Markgraf has systematically indoctrinated
them to shun me and to deny the truth. What possesses a mother to do such
things to her children?
While I lived with my family, an evening ritual was for the four youngest
children to sit on me as I sat in an armchair and discussed the day with
Elinor Markgraf; one on my shoulders, one on each thigh, and the youngest
between my knees. Hardly evidence of dislike; yet today my children hate,
fear and despise me. Where there was love, Elinor Markgraf rooted it out
and destroyed it, and sowed hatred in its place. What possesses a mother to
do such a thing to her children? Is there any sin worse than this?
Unfortunately, yes. Read on.
On 10/7/98 the Oregonian published a letter from Susan Moray which publicly
rebuked Elinor Markgraf for her declared methods of raising her sons; that
she was deliberately fostering behaviors in men that she (Moray) warned her
daughters against. When I discussed this matter with my sons in 1999, I
ended convinced and warned them that their mother, Elinor Markgraf, was
deliberately desocializing them with respect to women. I further warned
them that she would manipulate them into never leaving their childhood home,
and would discourage women who showed interest in them.
Now, more than 4 years later, she has done all this, ... and more. Imagine,
if you will, a household consisting of a mother and 5 male children, ranging
in age from 17 to 23, not one of whom shows any interest in exploring the
outside world. They just want to stay home and live with mom. When I
warned them in 1999 of this likely outcome, one of them, Alaric, denied it,
saying he hated the place and would leave home as soon as he was able. I
did not point out to him then that if he really meant what he said, he would
already have left.
... and more. Specifically, Elinor Markgraf has seduced the largest and
strongest son, Will, and uses him to enforce her goal of preventing her
children forming natural unions; by threat, terror and physical violence.
In May of this year, Will proudly informed me that he had knocked out one of
Tave's teeth and given him a concussion, with just one punch. He seemed
entirely ignorant that such behavior, if reported, could have brought him 6
years in prison. When I asked him why he did this, he said "because he
fucked his girl-friend". Will thinks it's ok for him to ****, but not for
his brothers? I think he laid Tave out because Tave was falling in love
with his girl friend. Violent bullying is well known to produce adult males
too cowed to form relationships with women, hence the current campaign
against bullying in schools.
The 5 boys are kept in bondage, while the only daughter, Madeleine, 25, was
hustled out of the house and compelled to earn her own living as soon as she
turned 18. This situation is the exact opposite of the traditional pattern.
The objective is to prevent our children from ever having children of
their own. Elinor Markgraf is engaged upon their psychological
sterilization.
You may feel that this is an invalid inference. I put it to the test. In
late September 2003 I sent an ultimatum to Elinor Markgraf, and copies to
each of our children. Either the family allay my fears regarding the
children's succession, or face this exposure. The letter was ignored.
Elinor Markgraf prefers this exposure rather than allow our children to
become sperm/egg donors. Our children are so terrorized by her that they
"choose" the same option. What possesses a mother that, after bearing and
raising six children, she would turn and destroy them in this way?
I do not think that Elinor Markgraf does the things I accuse her of by her
own choice. I think she is infected by an unrecognised disease or parasite.
My reasons for thinking this can be found at http://forporphyry.ds4a.com
by clicking on the Pandemic link.
For space reasons this email has barely touched the main issues. A full
account of accusations made against me and my rebuttals of them is
obtainable at http://forporphyry.ds4a.com and click on the Letters link.
or from (e-mail address removed).
Graham Lawrence 11/11/03
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