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Guy Macon said:I do indeed reject what you say, but not because of too much drama.
I reject it because it is *wrong*. It is as if you were to show up
at an auto repair business with your car behind a tow truck, tell
the mechanic that it won't start, and then, when he asks you to pop
thenhood open so he can take a look, tell him that a mechanic should
help a car owner without imposing special obligations such as opening
the hood!
I suspected you would not understand. You shoot from the hip with a
blunderbuss. You do not define the "it" in your "it is "wrong"". I have
told you there are situations where people are not particularly obliged
to do more than they do when asking questions and you are simply
ignoring the considerations I gave you.
This is just another form of the same old assumption --
that you know better than the mechanic does whether he needs to look
under the hood in order to diagnose a car that won't start.
You are running off like a hare. You need to slow down. It is not
obvious that this is the assumption of someone who refuses to open the
bonnet for the mechanic. You are so busy running so fast that you jumble
everything up and jump to conclusions which are not warranted.
And the
answer is the same as well; if you are such an expert, go ahead and
prove it us by solving the problem without looking under the hood.
Either that or face the same choce we have been discussing, which is
to either pop the hood like the nice mechanic asks, or to do without
his services.
This is just you failing to consider a whole range of other
possibilities.