Well, I'm not convinced, but that's partly because my notion of
grammar for natural language is as a description of usage,
Exactly. English grammar is descriptive (specifically, of syntax),
not proscriptive.
so I'm not making the distinction in the same way you are.
Clearly, but that doesn't follow from grammar being a description
of usage. If grammar describes usage, then an error of grammar
can only be an error of description, not an "error" in the actual
use of language in the statement in question.
I think my position here is that I'd use "greatest" and "greater" without
organised preference, for any non-empty collections of items,
I wouldn't try to stop you. (I actually do possess a secret doomsday
weapon with which I could enforce my language preferences on everyone,
but I don't wield it for trifles.) I prefer the comparative when
dealing with two items, but the use of the superlative in that context
is pretty widespread. The comparative for more than two ("he was the
wittier of the three"?) is, I think, less common, but understanding
probably won't be dramatically impaired by it.
but of course I might be empirically wrong
In a matter of usage? I'm not sure empiricism applies.
and in any case my usage has been heavily influenced by mathematics.
Where I agree that distinguishing the dual case would be a pointless
inconvenience.
*I* am happy to say "all my helicopters are heavily armed" and "our
biggest cat is on the bed". (But I might not be so happy to say that
to a policeman.)
Those cat police are a caution, aren't they?
--
Michael Wojcik (e-mail address removed)
They had forgathered enough of course in all the various times; they had
again and again, since that first night at the theatre, been face to face
over their question; but they had never been so alone together as they were
actually alone - their talk hadn't yet been so supremely for themselves.
-- Henry James