CBF wasn't so dense in the past and changes in this should be looked
into by a professional because they can stop them before they get
really bad.
Well, let's hope for his sake that he wasn't so dense in the past.
The truth is, saying that CBF has senile dementia or that Kiki has
chronic Asperger's/OCD isn't invective or insult, but a simple statement
of fact. In both cases, knowing the cause of the problem /should/ help
us understand and make allowances for the symptoms.
Unfortunately, neither CBF nor KT are willing to help themselves. Some
autistic people are self-aware enough to realize that they have problems
with social interactions, and they deliberately try to behave in a way
that may not seem "natural" to them, but is what (they rationalize) is
expected in ordinary human interaction. KT does not seem to be one of
them.
Similarly, some people whose faculties are failing because of old age
realize his, maybe even feel embarrassed or uncomfortable about it, and
live a quiet life with their loved ones. CBF prefers to parade his
decaying mental acuity to the world in an exceptionally crabby and
obstreperous way.
So yes, we should probably all make more allowances for these problems,
which are no laughing matter, and I'm as guilty as anyone in not doing
so. But on the other hand, the people with the problems could make their
lives a whole lot more pleasant if they tried to help themselves.