There we disagree. The hurt feelings of someone who attaches their identity
to a text should not restrain our discourse.
Yes, we do.
That would eliminate just about every joke: a huge range of jokes *depend*
for their humour on connecting seemingly-unrelated ideas. So by your logic,
we don't get to make those jokes here.
I didn't have much logic. I just don't think it's nice to do things
that hurt other people, and if we can, we should avoid those things.
Avoiding them is pretty easy here.
But whoever takes that joke and says it's deliberately hurtful is being
presumptuous and censorious and unreasonable. If they then castigate the
joker for supposedly hurting someone's feelings, it's at that point the
atmosphere turns hostile to discussion.
I don't really care about the "joke". I honestly I didn't understand
it as a joke, which would drive most of my disagrement. I don't think
it should have been made, yes. I take major issue with the
anti-Christian rant that appeared afterward, but I haven't really
taken much opportunity to attack it because it doesn't matter. All I'd
like is for people to be a little more friendly, if you please.
I also didn't reprimand anyone, except maybe Steven.
But anyway, no, we don't agree on what it means to be friendly or what
a hostile atmosphere is. I've noticed that people tend to be a lot
harsher here than what I'm used to, so perhaps your attitude to it is
more common on mailing-lists and I should just adapt.
Devin