Nick Keighley said:
I was distinguishing the two, but laws do cover things like murder and
theft. In some countries they cover things like adultary and
homosexuality.
not all counties and societies agree on where the dividing line is
Is having more than one wife at the same time moral or immoral? Legal
or illegal?
it depends on the country as per the matter of legality.
as for morals, it is generally assumed that it was generally better for a
person to only have 1 wife, but many other people took multiple wives.
Christianity as a whole took it to be generally the case that only having a
single wife was acceptable, although taken literally, polygamy is only
condemned for clerical positions (and the requirement that clergy remain
celibate was a later innovation, and is not a biblical requirement...).
some places you get rocks thrown at you...
possibly, but this is uncommon...
usually, the rocks are reserved for cases of adultery (or sodomy), and not
for fornication...
AFAIK, under the law of sharia, for example, it is usually the case that the
parties are flogged, and then forced to marry.
some variants of Judaism also follow the forced-marriage rule.
this would also be the biblically correct interpretation in Christianity as
well, although it has generally (for most of history that I know of), been
relaxed to where people are usually only forced to marry if the female gets
pregnant as a result.
in recent decades, it has been relaxed much further, although I personally
disagree that this is a reasonable stance. so, my personal belief is that it
is best if people remain abstinent until marrying.
*whose* literal interpretation?
generally my own, although I hardly think this interpretation is unusual.
most of what I have read has generally expressed similar ideas.
The reason I picked Lutherans is (if I've picked the right protestant
sect) that they believe you are born already saved or not saved. What
you do in your life doesn't affect this state (maybe god can peep
ahead into your future life to make the decision). Confession and
older RCC practices like indulgences are of course not practiced by
such protestant sects.
errm, that would be Calvinists...
Lutheran and Baptist soteriology, for example, works a bit differently...
on this front, I have some of my own views about how this part works...
yes but if guilt is the cost why should I feel guilt because I've
broken *your* moral code? Not everyone agrees that sex outside
marriage is necessarily sinful or wrong. I suspect many homosexuals
don't feel guilty about some of the things they do. Why should they?
well, the moral cost remains regardless of what a person believes about the
practice, since morality and morality exist independently of the people
themselves. the best a person can do is try to study and understand what is
moral and what is immoral, as otherwise they are, effectively, walking
blind...
but, anyways, guilt (in this context) is not the same as "feeling guilty".
guilt is essentially a concept more similar to debt.
if a person is in debt, they may know it, or they may not.
a person may also feel concern over their debt, or they may continue on
living life as a party so long as they can keep getting more credit cards.
eventually though, it will catch up with them (maybe in this life, maybe
not), and this is what a person may need to be concerned over.
a person can't stay in the clear if they live a life of uncontrolled
spending.
a person need not be a debt collector, but they can at least serve as a
warning that these things are not free...
yes, I over-stated the case. Office workers "take" stationary and
don't regard it as theft.
yep. there are many small ways a person can cut corners, which is a little
different from big glaring acts...
like, people will cut corners here and there on all sorts of things, and
then act like they had not done so. other people will just look for
loopholes,
and do what they want this way.
this kind of behavior may make someone a jerk or maybe a criminal, but I
don't necessarily think it makes them a sociopath.
it is like, is every gang member who will willingly steal ones' car
stereo,
or hubcaps, or tires, a sociopath? doubtful.
agreed. They may operate their own morality. "don't steal from
friends"
possibly.
[...] nothing stops a person from being immoral, so long as they
acknowledge this, and accept the respective guilt for doing such.
<--
but should I feel guilty if I do something you view as immoral but I
don't? Do you get to decide my moral code?
-->
most people agree on most things, from what I have observed.
obvious things like murder, rape and theft. But what about sex outside
marriage and other sexual mores?
most are agreed on.
for example, Chinese also traditionally hold similar views regarding
fornication and marriage, ... even though, traditional Chinese belief is
*far* from being the same as Christianity.
Is it immoral to drink alchohol?
I say no.
it is immoral to get wasted, but drinking itself is acceptable.
it is like, if drinking were wrong, Jesus would not have likely made wine.
him going, and using his powers to make wine, for drinking, is itself
evidence that it *can't* be immoral.
similar, damn near every church has also used wine in communion and similar
as well.
and, also, there were also references, in the Bible, to Jesus drinking, ...
so, the no-alcohol people are no longer operating under biblical definitions
if they try to condemn drinking.
however, practical considerations are still needed:
if a person is an alcoholic, then they should not drink.
the problem is not that alcohol, itself, is bad, but rather that if a person
can't moderate their drinking, they themselves have a problem.
it is much like how one doesn't let a dog have chocolate:
it is not that either the dog or the chocolate are immoral, but simply that
they don't mix.
the dog will gorge themselves, they will be poisoned by it, and then they
will die.
take a look at some societies outside your own. There may be more
variation than you think.
I have had some first hand exposure to Asians, having lived in Asia (or, at
least Guam, which is geographically at least in Asia, although under US
control, and actual Americans were a strong minority).
I also knew pacific islanders (from various other islands), some people from
the PRC, ...
there is generally more in common between cultures than is different IME.
<giggle> this sounds like Asimov's psycho-history
well, I am not exactly claiming something like the 3 laws here, but at
points I had considered trying to adapt a variation of the 3 laws into an
ethical philosophy.
however, most later variations did not incorporate this.
almosty impossible I'd say. I think both morality and human nature
would have to be vastly changed for this to occur
why so?...
it doesn't require people to *be* moral, any more than now, but it may at
least be possible eventually to estimate and measure its costs, make
predictions, or maybe get valid experimental answers.
under all that exists at present, there is no real way to estimate or
exprerimentally test moral assertions, and the best one can do is make an
estimate based on cultural and societal impacts.
no. I'm back to socio-paths again
you are aware that prostitutes are actually people? That killing
someone is murder except in some very exceptional circumstances?
Saving money doesn't seem to count as "very exceptional circumstances"
from where I'm standing.
whether or not a person is a person may not itself matter regarding ethical
concerns regarding them.
a sufficient network of economic transactions may itself mirror the
structure of a moral value-network, and I am left to wonder sometimes if
maybe the systems are inter-related.
in any case though, it is far from being 1:1, as they also seem to exhibit
different properties in many cases (I am left thinking that money is not,
itself, value, but instead tends to flow towards value). so, confusing money
for value is similar to confusing water to gravity.
morals may be another manifestation of the same basic force.
so, to fully understand ethics, it may be necessarily to abstract away some
of the "human" aspects, thinking not as much in terms of the people
involved, but in terms of interconnected nodes on various graphs...
If someone charges me too much for a sandwich is it ok for me to stab
them?
<snip>
I was never claiming in all this that it was acceptable, but more as an
example of some of the considerations which could be involved.
I doubt very much they would be charged with theft...
but theft of service is still a part of the problem, since if they kill the
seller before paying they are by extension not paying for the service.
in fact, it could be argued that killing the seller is an extension of the
act of theft (since, they would kill her to avoid paying her money), rather
than theft as an extension of the act of murder (this would be something
more along the lines of killing somone and then stealing their wallet as an
afterthought...).
[killed a prostitute to avoid paying her (or him)]
<--
probably!?
-->
yes. there is a certain possibility that:
the cops will not discover the true killer
you said "if they found out I didi it". Detection isn't the issue in
this case
fair enough.
seriously? Good grief. I'm guessing you're a religious person...
yep.
there are various circumstances in which a citizen could legally kill
someone. Self defence, defence of someone else, use of reasonable
force to prevent the commission of an atrocious crime etc.
I think I mentioned this, but I meant outside of the grounds of self-defense
or similar...
police have the right to execute criminals, keep jails, ..., but the average
citizen can't legally do similar.
for example, if an average person were going and collecting criminals,
locking them in their basement, and then dispatching them against a brick
wall in their back yard, it is VERY unlikely the police would look upon this
act favorably (even if likely the same criminal were to be sentanced to
capital punishment).
similarly, an average citizen also lacks the right to declare and enforce
laws in the same way as a government, ...
in effect, citizens are more regarded as the property of governments, in a
similar way to how objects are the property of their owners, or children are
effectively the property of their parents (or, in other views, effectively
the property of the state, but are effectively leased to their parents), ...
for example, a child running away from their parents is essentially theft of
themselves from their parents, and if returned, the parents may choose to
punish them as appropriate, ... (this being why parents can punish children,
can tell them what to do, take away their possessions when they start acting
up, ...).
then, when they are older, their ownership effectively transfers to the
state, which may choose to do what they will (charge taxes, draft them into
the military, force them to perform jury duty, ...), and the person
themselves lacks any real right to complain...
or such...